Your partner should be your best friend and confidant. (The right partner o or you will kee yourself by yourself). “He’s my bestie” is the reason most women hate DNA test today, it’s not ordinary. No more opposite-sex besties. What about Lesbos? Hmm some of them can suck a woman’s brain/sense away, no do o. This is the reason most relationships are not working and marriages broken today. It’s not the MAN/WOMAN, it’s their #beastie. They will suck love out of any relationship/marriage and leave partners doubting themselves. Besties can kill too, faster even. Beware, some are BEASTIES.