Before you date anybody, piss them of and se what kind of person they are. most times, you will unpack a lot of BS you know you would rather not deal with. Everyone is generally geting tired dramatic relationships. Nobody has to deal with that so everyone can really stay on their own as we all are imperfect. No woman or man wants to deal with a partner who is uncultured and disrespectful. When everyone is on their own, we would understand what it means to be with someone. no relationship is worth your peace of mind.