I don't advice any man to get married. You can go ahead and have kids. Most times relationships are better without an official marriage as long as there is love. These days, it seems that making things official is officially spoiling them. If it goes sour, the man loses no matter what. They will tell you they love and all that crap, when the time comes, they will show you different and nothing will happen. Why would you go into a relationship where you will lose regardless of wetherr you are wrong or right? You only win if you stay single. Marriage is a scam. Love too. Why the rush if most married people are trying to get out?